B was so nervous, it took him 'a little while' to be comfortable enough to even get an erection. After messaging each other for about a week, they met up at the other man's empty apartment. That's when B found r/jobuds, a NSFW subreddit for 'mostly straight guys who happen to like jerking off with others.'ī had his first sexual experience with another man after connecting on a spinoff subreddit, r/jobudsmeetup. 'It wasn't till around the middle of college that I discovered there were communities online filled with people like me that had very similar attractions.' To maintain anonymity, he asked to only be referred to as one of his initials. 'For a very long time I just brushed it aside and ignored it,' B told Mashable through a Reddit DM. May is National Masturbation Month, and we're celebrating with Feeling Yourself, a series exploring the finer points of self-pleasure.ī, a 23-year-old man who identifies as straight, really likes looking at dicks.Īlthough he isn't romantically or sexually attracted to cis men, B says his fascination to 'strictly penises' began when he started watching porn in high school.
